CYNPHIL

At Last....

2011-12-26T09:06:00.000-08:00

MOVING

2011-06-12T21:19:00.000-07:00

Alot of people are moving. I am happy and sad.
Of course, I am happy for the ones who have found
employment, and need to move to be able to provide
for their families. I totally understand that, but they
will be missed. Some are moving to take advantage
of the incredible deals to be found in the real estate
market here. I hope to still see them around.
Sometimes I wish we were moving, too.
Then I quickly remember how blessed we are, living
in our home that we have made so many memories in.
As I get older, I feel a little tug to go back to Utah. I am
suprised at this. We have loved Vegas so much. Maybe
as my kids are leaving the nest, I am thinking about it
more. We are not as busy. It would be nice to be closer
to family. Then again, my kids are here. My family is here.
My extended family visits. Yay! I will go "home" for a visit
this summmer.
I will be content to live here, and hope that all of our friends
who are moving into new homes, and onto new adventures,
will find someone there to make them feel at home.
xoxo
Cyn

MARCH

2011-03-06T15:13:00.000-08:00

I love March. I have ever since I was a child. I've always thought that was because it
is my birthday month. As I've gotten older, I realize I love March for many reasons.
St. Patricks Day. What a fun holiday! I remember getting to make calendars in school for each month, and how fun it was to draw rainbows and pots of gold. I loved the stories and activities
that went along with March. What's not to love about learning Irish folk tunes, hearing stories of mischevious leprechauns, and searching for a "four leaf clover" in my own backyard. Magical.
March birthdays in Utah meant it could either be lovely springtime weather or cold and snowy weather. It would seem as though the elements were playing tug of war, and I would wait until my birthday to declare the winner. I love that March no matter the weather, is associated with Spring. I LOVE Spring! I love the new green grass, the buds on the trees, and the feelings of
awakening and freshness. I believe this transcends just weather patterns. I believe peoples brains are buzzing with new ideas and souls are stirring with exictement. I feel an energy in March that is undeniable. We will welcome a new baby in our family this March. My sister becomes a grandmother for the first
time! How excited we are! A girl who will (hopefully) share my March birthday. After all,
what could be better than a March birthday?

xoxo
Cyn

Love.

2011-02-07T08:04:00.000-08:00

Well, I can't believe it's been a month since Alexes married Landan. It was a great day at the temple, and then the reception the next night was also a success. So glad they were happy with everything. We love them, and are excited to add another member to our family.

xoxo

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

2010-12-29T14:20:00.000-08:00

Dear Friends and Family,

As this year comes to an end, I have no brain cells left, so I will just share a few funny stories from us.

PHILLIP- As you may or may not know, Phillip is in LOVE with our dog JACK. He carried Jack down the stairs every night the first two years we had him. As he carried him downstairs, he would give him a "pep talk." Saying things like, "Who's my big strong handsome, boy? You are in charge of security now, Who's my little succulent lover? On and on... this ritual had to stop however, when I would tell him to go outside, and he would go to the top of the stairs and wait to be carried down. I refuse to carry an animal downstairs with 4 legs.

CYNTHIA- Found it really funny that with 3 weeks before the wedding we had no flowers, cake, or caterer and he was asking me when I was going to get the Christmas letter mailed out.

ALEXES- Trying to find one errant eyebrow hair that was painful plucked the center of her eyebrow BALD! She informs me not to worry though, because she can draw in the missing part, and it's on the side her bangs cover most of the time. Hopefully it will be filled in by the wedding.

CHRISTOPHER- One day in the car, I was reminiscing about how excited Phillip was to finally have a son, how he recognized his cry in the hospital before I did, how he would put his sunglasses on him if he thought the TV lights were too bright for his newborn eyes, etc.etc. Christopher says, "I used to be Jack."

LAUREN- Christopher regularly declares that he NEVER wants to get married, he only wants a dog. Well, he also loves Ke$ha and tells me he's going to marry her. One day when he was again saying he was NEVER going to get married, Lauren said, "What about Ke$ha? Or is she your dog?

REBECCA and COREY- regulary make us laugh when they come for dinner. We loved watching Corey's reaction when we played the game "CURSES" and Grandma had to imitate Alexes.
Corey and Rebecca recently celebrated their two year anniversary.

We hope the holidays bring a smile to your faces, as remembering all of you
brings a smile to ours.
xoxo

A Bushel and a Peck

2010-11-16T08:59:00.000-08:00

"I love you a bushel and a peck, a bushel and a peck and a hug around the neck. A hug around the neck and a barrel and a heap. A barrel and a heap and I'm talkin' in my sleep about you..." When I was a child, my mom would sing this song often. I also sang it to each of my children, and I look forward to singing it to grandchildren. (No, I am NOT announcing anything.) When all is said and done, I have alot to be grateful for. I should look for these things often.
I feel peace at the temple. I have a family that is healthy. I am loved. I am not alone.
Music. Opportunities to serve. Good friends. Safe and comfortable home. Music. Even though I don't have all the answers, I have the ability to ask, learn, and grow.
For these and many other things, I am grateful.

Going Batty.

2010-10-17T14:52:00.001-07:00

The name of this background is "going batty." Seemed fitting.
I haven't blogged for sometime now, (not that I think anyone noticed.) ( ;
Seems like there have been alot of ups and downs. But, if I intend this as my feeble
attempt at journaling, here we go.
Teenagers are hard. Have I said that before? Having four at once is a little daunting at times.
Apparantly they feel my frustration too, as I've been told I'm a "piece of junk." Now, I KNOW this was done in anger, blah blah blah. But I must say, it hasn't inspired me. What does make a good mom? It's SO subjective.
Anyways, we've had so much happening. I finished school, and will try and find a little part time work, in addition to my part time job. I still refuse to "work full time." Phillip is OK with that.
Highlights: Chopped my hair again for Locks of Love.
Lexi graduated and is at NAU this Fall.
Lex got engaged, so she'll be attending UNLV this Spring.
Chris was accepted in the dual credit program so he is attending
Nevada State College. We are so excited for him!
He is 16 and working toward getting his license.
Lauren is doing more babysitting, and has a "pooper scooper" job. We love that she is so responsible. ( :
Phillip and I took THE BEST vacation to Washington DC. It was so incredible to be in our nations capitol and be surrounded by such incredible history. I absolutely LOVED it! I would love to take the kids.
That's enough for now.
xoxo
Cyn

Hard.

2010-07-28T21:42:00.001-07:00

I'm in a rut. I seem to be constantly "putting out fires" this summer.
Marriage is hard.
Teenagers are hard.
Am I stating the obvious?
I feel guilty knowing others out there have WAY bigger problems, but still. I'm
in a funk.
xoxo
Cyn

p.s. Don't know what happened to my last post.
It disappeared. Something to do with the "new"
blogger.

June

2010-07-07T12:39:00.000-07:00

After school let out in June, I whisked the kids away to Disneyland. Got to catch up with a good friend, and go to Disneyland for 4 glorious days! Heaven. We came back Thursday, Lexi graduated on Friday, and Lauren had her tonsilectomy on Saturday. Chris left for San Diego the following Wednesday for a football tournament. That same day, Phillip and Alexes drove to Flagstaff for Fr. orientation. They then drove to San Diego to catch the rest of Christopher's tournament. THEY WON! The Spartans are the Nat'l. Champs! Then, we blinked and June was gone and July is well underway. We had a great time with company for the Fourth of July. I was able to catch up with a cousin I haven't seen in 20 years and her most adorable daughter Shelby. What. a. doll!!!! It was so fun to have a little one around again. We missed her as soon as she left.
xoxo
Cyn

May Day, May Day...

2010-05-31T19:16:00.000-07:00

Man. It just seems like time is FLYING by! May zoomed in and out like that.

Here are the highlights. With a few pics.

1. Lauren received an award for Straight A's.

2. Christopher turned 16 and went on his first date. (I was NOT allowed to take pictures of him and his date, but she is darling. They went to Carrie Underwood.)

3. Alexes graduated from Seminary.

4. Alexes received awards for:

a. High Honors Graduate

b. Honors Diploma

c. Academic Letter

5. Chris was accepted into Nevada State High School which means he will be earning college credit simultaneously with High School credit.

So proud of my kids!

6. I graduated with Straight A's. ( :

7. Phillip and I celebrated 20 years of marriage.

We were able to spend Memorial Day weekend at Brianhead.

What a GREAT way to finish this month.

xoxo

Cyn

Prom.

2010-05-09T13:53:00.001-07:00

Mother's Day.

2010-05-07T07:47:00.000-07:00

Mother's Day is this weekend. As I have thought about how quickly
the kids are growing, I am reminded of how sweet my memories of
Mother's Day are. Breakfast in bed. The treasures they have made at home, school, and
church. How excited they were to give them to me. As they got a little
older, how the coupons from their "coupon books" began having expiration
dates. Or how Christopher would give me the coupon book, and then later
sneak in to remove the coupons he was having second thoughts on. HA HA!
My kids are funny. I hope you all have a GREAT Mother's Day. I think all
women have a "mother heart". We all mothers in one way or another, whether
or not we have bio children. So, here's to you moms'.!

xoxo
Cyn

Good morning!

2010-04-21T18:08:00.001-07:00

This is what we woke up to last Sunday. Lexi is very excited. ( :

So far, so good.

2010-04-13T22:30:00.000-07:00

School is going well so far. I passed midterms. ( :
Overall grade: 94.5%
Hooray! (Now to keep it up.)
Wish me luck.

xoxo
Cyn

The List

2010-03-30T10:26:00.001-07:00

Here's a list of my 40 good deeds. It was alot of fun.

1. Bought snack for classmate2.Taught a craft class to my Mia Maids3. Helped a classmate study4. Bought Chris and his friend McDonalds5. Gave Chris' friend a ride home from school6. Did Phillip and Lauren's chores7. Gave missionaries water and Powerade8. Let ALexes take my ph...one to work9. Baked cookies and delievered to neighbors10. Gave an overdue apology11. Gathered items for a fundraising garage sale12. Volunteered at a Skilled Care Facility13. Got an immobile patient a drink from the vending machine14. Shared lunch with a classmate who had none15. Wrote thank-you notes to mail16. Donated to a charitable cause17. Suprised a classmate with her favorite treat18. Taking classmates cupcakes19. Gathered grocery carts at the store 20. Taped change to the vending machine 21. Delivered cookies to the firestation 22. Thank you notes to friends.23. Gave a homeless man $$ 24. Took Lauren to the library25. Delivered cookies to the police station26. Consoled a friend 27. Picked up the trash in a neighbor's yard 28. Fed the birds29. Carried Lauren's books in for her 30. Held the door for people (including Lauren) 31. Made "Have a Nice Day" notes and put them on cars32. Got TP for the person stuck without any (Don't you HATE when that happens?)33. Said extra prayers for those I know of in need 34. Gave the dogs bones as an extra treat 35. Left an extra tip on another table in the restaurant 36. Ran to the store to get Phillip new allergy meds 37. Ironed Christopher's clothes 38. Called my mom and told her thanks for giving me life 39. Thanked people for doing good deeds this past week. ( : 40. Left a treat and note in the mailbox for the mailman

The Big 4-0

2010-03-24T08:22:00.000-07:00

I was given a paper to fill out about my most memorable birthday. It also asks what my "perfect" birthday would be like. As I thought about past birthdays, a few stood out, but I'm not sure they would be my most memorable. So I thought since this is a "big deal" birthday of sorts, maybe I could make this one memorable. Well, as it turns out it will be in the fact that I will be taking mid-terms. Not exactly what I had in mind. SO my challenge is this. I am going to try and do 40 good deeds between now and my birthday. I have asked friends and family to join with me, and also do a good deed between now and then. If you are reading this, that means you! ( : Do show some love, and leave a comment and let me know what you did.
xoxo
Cyn

Family Traditions

2010-03-22T21:48:00.001-07:00

St. Patrick's Day is one of those few "traditions" that we started anew with

our own little family. One year, early on in our marriage I decided to make

a "traditional" Irish dinner of corned beef and cabbage. Phillip thought I was

pretty cool, so of course I continued. I mean who wouldn't when they hear

their husband brag about your cabbage? Who knew? I made these little goodies

for the kiddos this year. We are all pretty lucky.

xoxo

Cyn

Time flies.

2010-03-09T09:21:00.000-08:00

Febuary flew by and with it we celebrated lots of good things!
I got some beautiful roses from Phillip for Valentines Day.
We celebrated Corey's 21st birthday. I asked him a bunch of questions, and can't find the paper I wrote the answers on. :/ I can tell you this. He has changed his major to Recreation and Sports Management. They have been married over a year now, and things are great. ( :
We are thankful to have him in our family.
Lauren turned 13! I can't believe my baby is a teenager. She is still playing the oboe, and loves to read. She is learning to draw.
I am one lucky mom.

**3/22/2010

Corey has switched his major back to Psychology, and his birthday pics are on Lexi's camera.

I will upload later. ( :

LOV*E

2010-02-12T08:18:00.000-08:00

I was fortunate to attend a funeral service for a boy in our previous ward yesterday. He was 16.
The bishop in his remarks gave some interesting counsel. He suggested that we pray for the dead. He went on to say that when we pray for the dead, we are strengthening the links in our family. He also declared that hope is infinite. That even the ones who have passed have hope. They too have hopes for what will happen for them and for us still. When we were in UT for Christmas, mom had a death in her ward, and she mentioned that when the wife of the man who had passed received a blessing, in it was the prayer that "Don" would not be scared or confused about where he was. I thought that was interesting.
I hope everyone can find the peace they so desire.
I am grateful for the restoration.
Happy Valentines Day.
xoxo
Cyn

FRIED Brain

2010-02-02T09:49:00.000-08:00

Today my brain is fried. I feel like I am always behind.
Took my first test yesterday. Our instructor told us to
study two particular chapters for this test and "residents
rights". Well, she tested on a chapter that was not one of
the two she told us to study. It was in the reading from the
first week though, so shame on me. Ugh.
I want to nap. Not happening. So grateful to only be
working part time though. My brain and reading skills
seem to have slowed down. It takes me longer to do the
reading, etc. than I anticipate.
Good: Test is over
Bad: Will not get scores until next week.
Funny: Lauren's antics at school.
Grateful: I'm not alone.
xoxo
Cyn

Back to School

2010-01-18T17:14:00.000-08:00

Well, I did it. I registered for classes, and I start tomorrow. Wanna know what's funny? The first time I went to college I declared "education" as my major. After years and years in the classrooms of my own children, I realized it wasn't for me. However I did NOT remember changing my major to "psychology". I must have lost my mind. Or at least my memory, because when I registered this time, I had no memory of "officially" changing it to psychology. ANYWAY. I will have my CNA by the end of May with heavens help! I'm excited, nervous,
and grateful. I have chatted with a few others in the program with heartbreaking stories. One woman's husband is terminally ill. She is hoping to learn the skills necessary to keep him home until the end, and then able to support her family after he passes. Another hasn't been able to pay her mortgage for 6 months, and has 3 small children. Another woman's husband has been unemployed for 2 years, and she doesn't have much hope of anyone hiring him since he's 59 now. As nervous as I am, I am grateful for the opportunity.
Lucky me!
xoxo
Cyn

Christmas 09

2010-01-05T13:11:00.000-08:00

OK. I've stumbled upon the secret to Christmas success. Just spread it out over three days, which is exactly what we did.
Wednesday we did Christmas here with Corey and Becca. i pods, spa kits, and plenty of bath and body works abounded.

Thursday we drove to Utah arriving just in time to have Christmas Eve festivities with the Bailey's. Happily, we got to spend the evening with LOTS of cute kids, their mommies and daddies, and Poppy and Nana. On Friday, we spent the morning with my mom, drove to my brother's house where I FINALLY got to meet a cute niece for the first time! Love that Kelby. I also learned that another cute niece got a new nicname, "Crabigaile". She's adorable too! Lastly, we went to my sisters for Christmas dinner. We had a great weekend, and of course, never had enough time to do and see everyone/all we want, but we were grateful to be there.

xoxo

Cyn

'Tis the Season

2009-12-04T22:12:00.001-08:00

Happy Holidays!
Thanksgiving has come and gone, and what a great day it was. Corey
and Rebecca came for dinner, and I had lots of help.
A couple of years ago I had each of the kids pick which item they would like
to be in charge of for dinner. It really turned out well. This year, the boys did
all of the cleaning, and Phillip helped do the mashed potatos. Lex did rolls, and
Lolly did pies. YUM. It's so great to have so many hands helping.
Here we are in December, and we are in the full holiday spirit around here.
We have always waited until after Becca's birthday to put the tree up, but now
that she is married, I decided to put one up the day after Thanksgiving.
It was really fun. The kids don't exactly like putting up the decorations, but I think
that it was relatively painless. Next up, we had new family photos taken. I thought
it would be nice to have a nice picture for the Christmas card this year. We will be
celebrating Becca's b*day this weekend as she has finals on her birthday.
Let the baking begin, carols be sung, and all our days be "merry and bright".
xoxo
Cyn

Dear Mr. Bailey

2009-11-20T18:09:00.000-08:00

Dear Mr. Bailey,

Although I am VERY happy that you are in Utah for the weekend, I feel I must tell you a few things....

I think that from now on, if YOUR son decides to "moon" me, you must be present to deal with him. Apparantly he thinks it's funny. I do not.

When our youngest is sick and crying, It would be appreciated if you could be present for any needed support or to just run to the pharmacy.
The dogs got into the smarties in the candy dish thus showing their displeasure at your absence.

It is only Friday night. It's going to be a looooooong weekend.

xoxo

Cyn

p.s. Thanks for cleaning the toilet before you left. xoxo

Fantastic Fall

2009-11-09T09:49:00.001-08:00

I am loving fall this year, aren't you? Cool morning walks, football games, fun times for everyone, and getting things done around the house. I have FINALLY, FINALLY, FINALLY finished my New Years Resolution from three years ago. I have all of our photos organized in albums, along with the little ticket stubs, pamphlets, etc. that have been saved over our last 20 years! Sing it with me now, "Hallelujiah!" The corner of my bedroom is CLEAN!

The boys have been working on projects too. Phillip did some digging to investigate why our lawn was dying in the front, only to find enough concrete to fill three five gallon buckets. He and Chris sanded down and stained some "freecycled" deck chairs. Our picnic benches are next.

Thanksgiving is fast approaching, and that reminds us of our blessings, so all in all I love Fall!

xoxo

Cyn

End of October

2009-10-30T21:42:00.000-07:00

We've done some fun things to finish up the month. Last weekend we took Lauren on a horseback ride. A few years ago, we had bought her this "package" from a National Equestrian Club. It included a book, bookmark, a ride, and some other things. The only problem, was the ride was in Reno. Phillip had always felt bad about this, and decided we needed to make this up to her. Needless to say, he woke her last Saturday telling her that her country needed her, and to get dressed. We had a good time. After the ride, we visited the petting zoo, watched a couple of plays, and walked through the "town" of Bonnie Springs.

Corey and Becca came over today to carve pumpkins. Corey couldn't remember ever carving one, so that was fun. Lauren had a costume party, and went as a cowgirl. She wore a dress that my mom bought me when I was 12. I HATED that dress, but always felt guilty for hating it, so I saved it. Ha Ha! It was fun to see Lauren in it. She made an ADORABLE cowgirl.

Happy Halloween!
xoxo

Cyn

Seasons Change.

2009-10-12T15:28:00.000-07:00

This is something that has been on my mind alot lately.
I feel like there are to be some big changes coming for us.

Maybe it's because I realize that my second daughter is about

to leave the nest, and it reminds me that I'm on the downhill

slide of having children around. In as few as 6 years, the baby graduates, and then what? Is it the economy, and thinking I need to be able to help support our family if need be?

I don't know. I am looking at going

back to school, but then the demons from my youth come back.

The fears, the self doubt, the NIGHTMARES of math, and knowing

I could not pass a math class to save my life. What to do? I am still

young, and I know that another season of life is fast approaching, and
I'd like to be doing something for the next 20 years that I want to do.

Yikes! It's both thrilling and terrifying at the same time. I try and

remind myself that I can do this, it's just those empty places in my

mind that fill with doubt. I wonder how to teach my girls to deal with

this as young women, when I know it could be a lifelong struggle that

sometimes I don't even know how. Then, I receive yet another

"tender mercy" from my H.F. when I see this

article, and I know he is listening.

I took the girls to Mt. Charleston last week to see the seasons change.

xoxo

Cyn

2009-09-09T09:23:00.001-07:00

Hakuna Matata

2009-09-09T08:52:00.000-07:00

I got to see "The Lion King" this past Monday, and it was MAGNIFICENT!
I never loved the movie, but I must say the play was spectacular. I would highly
recommend it! So. Do yourself a favor, and start hinting for tickets as a gift, or save
your pennies and take your family for Christmas or something. It's well worth it!
xoxo
Cyn

Heavenly Choirs.

2009-08-23T22:15:00.000-07:00

Do you hear that? I know that most moms CANNOT WAIT for the first day of school. They are singing praises to the heavens for the first day of school to arrive. I have never been one of them. Oh sure, it's nice to get back into the routine, but isn't that what we love about summer? Having the kids around and NOT having to be so structured? I love the random "let's go get lunch," or Chris telling me that the car needs gas, so we can go on a soda/treat run. Just the simple pleasure of sleeping in. Like it or not though, tomorrow is the first day of school and even though I have some fun things planned for me, I'll miss the kiddos.
xoxo
Cyn

What have you been doing?

2009-08-09T21:22:00.000-07:00

We have been in denial. I don't know where the summer went, but it seems to be leaving.

Goodbye summer. We have loved lazy and sunny days. We have enjoyed feeling the heat on the lake. Trying to eat ice cream cones before they drip all over. We have taken trips, had company come to visit, and enjoyed barbecues. We celebrated a couple of birthdays in your warmth, and look forward to your return already!

xoxo

Cyn

Newest Kid Pics!

2009-07-25T21:21:00.001-07:00

My kids are cute. I know you think that's prideful, but I prefer to think of it as truthful. ( : See for yourself. Want to see yourself looking this cute? Schedule your portrait session here. Thanks Cheryl!

xoxo

Cyn

Leaving Las Vegas..

2009-07-16T20:05:00.000-07:00

Sigh... The family left us. We had such a great time with Kaitlyn and Jentry but they had to leave. Sigh. My dogs were even sad! We did make some new GREAT memories, though! Hopefully enough to tide us over until the next visit. ( : I loved having the kids here because my sister and her cute husband came to pick them up! Double bonus!

We love you guys, come back soon!

xoxo
Aunt Cynna

HAPPY BIRTHDAY KAITLYN!

2009-07-09T15:30:00.001-07:00

Kaitlyn turned 18! We all went to Buca di Beppo for dinner to celebrate. We had lots of good laughs, nice waiters, and of course, good food.

After dinner, the boys went home, and the girls went shopping. Good times!

We love you Kaitlyn!

Weekend of the Fourth. Let Freedom Ring!

2009-07-05T23:07:00.001-07:00

We have had the best time with two of my nieces visiting. We have played at Willow Beach,

BBQ'd with the Bly's and celebrated Keenan's birthday. He would have been 10! We also watched 4th of July fireworks. God Bless America!

HAPPY 40th ANNIVERSARY

2009-07-01T13:46:00.000-07:00

My mother and father in law celebrate 40 years of marriage today. What an accomplishment!

We love them, and thank them for their love and guidance through the years.

xoxo

Cyn (aka their FAVORITE daughter in law) ( ;

Good times

2009-06-29T19:51:00.000-07:00

I went to UT to pick up the kids this past weekend. My sister and I were able to help my mom
"spruce" up her frontroom, catch up with some family and friends, and visit the Oquirrh Temple open house. We were also able to bring two nieces home for a couple of weeks. ( : They are really cute girls. We also brought their dog to come and play with his "cousins". It is pretty fun. I have a captive audience whenever I am in the kitchen. As June is about to slip away for another year, we are thankful for and look forward to more good times.

xoxo

Cyn

Jumpin' June

2009-06-22T14:05:00.000-07:00

My word, June is flying by, isn't it? So far, we have celebrated Phillip's birthday, gotten Chris and Lauren new haircuts, Phillip took Chris and Lauren to Utah, and we celebrated Father's Day.

I will be heading to Utah this weekend to bring all three kids and an assortment of cousins back to stay with us. Sounds fun right? I can't wait! ( :

Circus

2009-06-14T21:36:00.001-07:00

Dear Mother Nature,

I am awaiting your "gift" this month. My body is already preparing. I think it decided to go with
a "circus" theme this month. You know, with the ususal attractions. Bearded ladies, boobloons, ferocious mood swings, er animals, etc.

You and I go waaaayyy back. In fact, I believe you have visited me approximately 400
times over the years. The only times you did not visit left me with four "spectators". I do
not wish to have any more spectators, so I am politely informing you that your visits will
no longer be required. Please don't misunderstand, there have been times I was especially glad for your visits, it's just that they are no longer required on such a regular basis.
Please feel free to enjoy the chocolate pie that I would NEVER have bought except for anticipating your visit. I need to inform Flip the Clown that the Fun House will be temporarily closed.

Sincerely,
Cyn

Graduation

2009-06-08T19:19:00.000-07:00

We are so proud of Rebecca! She graduated today with honors, and because she placed in the top ten statewide in a DECA competition, she wore the "cords" for that too. WOW! She is enrolled at UNLV this fall, and we look forward to her continued success.

Last Thursday was the last day of school. I took the kids out to lunch. My only stipulation is that they all have to agree on one place. We went to Sonic. After lunch we came home so Lex could finish (start) packing. She left on a plane to Utah for a few weeks. She is having a good time with cousins. Chris will meet up with her in a couple of weeks to attend EFY at the U of U. I am excited for both of them! Lauren is making plans to stay there with friends while the big kids are in Utah. Lauren is also looking forward to getting her bike fixed so she can ride it this summer. I can't believe we are almost half way through June already! Father's Day and Phillip's birthday are just around the corner! I hope you are enjoying your summer too.

xoxo

Cyn

p.s. If you're wondering about a great service project, check out this link! My friend since high school, Michelle is hoping to complete a marathon in Maui to honor her dad CJ. I love, love, loved her dad CJ. He was one of the best! "I can~ I am~ I WILL" be supporting her in this goal. Maybe you can too.

"May"hem

2009-05-29T20:53:00.000-07:00

It seems as though May has gone by in a flash! Christopher had a birthday, we've had "end of the year" programs at school, we went to Hawaii, my mom has been here visiting, and now it's practically June! First things first:

Chris turned 15. Here are some of his stats.

Height: 5' 11 and a half

Weight: 170

Girlfriend: Taylor Swift (she just doesn't know it yet)

We have gone to Lauren's band concert, and we went to see her get an award for her performance in the "solo olympics." She had to play an oboe solo in front of three judges, and they then rate the musicians. She received a " Superior" rating.

Rebecca had Sr. Awards night, but she didn't plan on going, so we didn't. She has however, received one grant that I know of.

Lex received the award for "Junior of the Year" at the Student Council banquet tonight. Sorry no pics, but it was just for the kids. She is the student body historian next year though, so I will get to see lots of pictures in the future! ( :

Phillip and I went to Hawaii for 9 glorious days! We spent the first week in Maui, where we enjoyed lots of lazy days. We snorkeled, slept in, he golfed, we shopped a bit, and relaxed! We went to Oahu for a couple of days, to visit Pearl Harbor. What a wonderful experience. It seemed especially poignant to be there during Memorial Day weekend. It was just awesome! We also happened to spend our anniversary there. 19 years, if you can believe. We're kind of a big deal, ha ha! It seems as if summer is here, and as usual it is going to be busy. Girls camp, EFY, squeezing in a trip to California if we can, and trying to finish up projects. Whew! I can't wait to see what's ahead.

xoxo

Cyn

p.s. I'll post pics of Christopher's b*day when I find the other memory card to the camera. ( :

Happy Mother's Day to YOU!

2009-05-10T19:25:00.000-07:00

Happy Mother's Day to you!

As I think about the reason we celebrate today, I wish to celebrate you!

I am so grateful to be a mom. It is truly one of my lifes greatest blessings. I also know that without so many others to help me along the way, it would not be nearly as successful.

I celebrate my friends with "mother hearts," who have shown love to my children, and have uplifted them. I celebrate my friends whose hearts are grieving for their children who are now their angel children. You give me perspective. I celebrate the many teachers who have loved and inspired my children. Your influence is felt far beyond the time you shared with my children. I celebrate my son in law whose own mother is now mothering my daughter. I am so grateful that our families will grow together. I celebrate my sisters and sisters in law for always being back up's whenever I needed them. Whether it was an extra pair of eyes at the pool, or a refuge from lifes difficulties, I love them. I celebrate my mother in law, for loving me as her own. And of course, I want to wish my own mother a Happy Mother's Day. I love her, and hope that we have many more to celebrate. Happy Mother's Day to you!

xoxo

Cyn

Random Happenings

2009-05-02T15:36:00.001-07:00

So you know how when the kids run out of "t.p." in their bathroom they just go and raid yours?

Lauren ran out, and got the last roll from our bathroom. I told her to go get some more for

both of our bathrooms and she did. This is what my bathroom looks like now.
Last Friday, Phillip and I went to see "LOVE" at the MGM Mirage. It was a great show!

I have been missing Rebecca alot this week. It is strange to have her graduating, and not taking her for Senior pictures, dress shopping for Prom, knowing which scholarships or grants she received if any, etc. It's not a bad thing really, just a reality I didn't expect. On the flipside, I didn't expect to have a wedding celebration for her either, which was alot of fun, OR get a son in law that I adore. So I guess as the saying goes, "Come What May and Love It." Finally in the randomness of this post, I will say that in two short weeks I will be in Maui! Hooray! I cannot wait!

xoxo

To Blog or Not to Blog

2009-04-15T18:41:00.000-07:00

Well, I had plans to do a great "Easter" blog complete with pictures, since we were going to Utah.
I packed the camera and everything, but I didn't pack the battery which was charging... sigh
So. Use your imagination! Imagine a great drive to Utah, a restful nights sleep at my mom's.
Then imagine our family with my mom and Phillip's parents at the Aquarium on Friday. Can you see Phillip's happy face as we ate at his beloved CROWN BURGER? Picture us walking off said lunch at Ikea that afternoon. We had a lovely visit with my niece and her family, and then my sister and her girls came over to celebrate my brother in law's birthday. You can almost taste the chocolate cake, right?
Friday we took TRAX downtown and strolled Temple Square, perused Deseret Book, and enjoyed lunch at the Lion House. We then cruised Gateway, and headed home to arrange sleepovers for the kids. Friday night many friends joined us for a late supper and we talked the night away! We will have to do it again sometime when I remember the camera and battery! Saturday was the Easter celebration with the Bailey family, including the newest member Miss Sophia May Jeffs! I loved being able to hold her. We feasted of course, and that reminds me that I need to e-mail Suzanne for her cheese dip recipe! MUY BUENO!!
So my friends, as you read this I hope your imagination is VIVID! My memories of this trip are vivid in my mind!
xoxo
Cyn

Keenan Bly

2009-04-06T17:07:00.000-07:00

I cannot believe it has been two years since my little friend left.

Today is the day I journal about a very sacred time in my life. This entry has been rolling around in my mind for years. I think I may finally be ready to do this. Maybe I can just get it started.

I met Keenan when he was a year and a half. We had been invited by his family to a block BBQ they were hosting. I was impressed with this. She didn't know us, but included us and our kids in their birthday parties that she also had earlier in the day. Looking back now, it is just typical Tricia. Wanting to include everyone and always ready to make a new friend.

Tricia does hair. She had someone tending her kids for in her home, but I occasionally served as her "back up" babysitter.

What a blessing for me. It allowed me to be with Lauren and earn a little extra money. Several months went by, and Tricia's babysitter quit. She asked me if I wanted to tend for her permanently. I was THRILLED! I LOVED her kids, they played well with Lauren, and Phillip's employer was heading for bankruptcy and he was looking for a new job. Truly a blessing.

I would tend Keenan, Cameron, and later Tory. ( : We had alot of fun. As time went on, the kids grew and Keenan was about to start kindergarten. What an exciting time!

That October, he just wasn't feeling well. He'd been to the doctor off and on that month. He was home sick, and just laid on the couch all day. This was so unlike him. I talked to Tricia on the phone, and she asked me if I thought she should take him in, and I said, "yes." I knew he was pretty sick. She took him in that night, and he was diagnosed. Liver/lung cancer. He was 6. We were all devastated. The next two years were a wonderful, horrible, and blessed life changing experience.

I don't know how to put into words my experience. I was not his mother, yet I didn't know how to not love him and Cameron and Tory like mine. Thankfully, Tricia NEVER made me feel like I had to have "limits." She absolutely gave me free reign to love him as my own. She actually made me feel like she was grateful for me, when I was so grateful to be a part of their lives. I will never be able to adequately express my gratitude for this. I witnessed many miracles. I witnessed the love of humanity, the comfort brought by the Holy Ghost, the blessings upon skilled medical staff and the unselfish love of my own family. I do not wish to go into details here, perhaps I will document those in my personal journal. I will share a few favorite memories here though.

Keenan was so sweet. He would tell Tricia every morning "bye mom, make people's hair pretty."

Keenan loved to cook! We would often cook together. He would tell me I was a "good cooker," but not as good as his mom." He loved breakfast! We would make eggs, sausage, waffles, or french toast sticks. I would love it when he'd drag the stool over, and stand next to me at the stove. Keenan was given medicinal "pot" and he'd get a wicked case of "the munchies!" Of course I loved that he felt well enough to eat, so I would have cooked anything he wanted all day.

There were those days, when that is what we did! We would get through breakfast, and he would want a snack, and then lunch, and then another snack. We also had fun times making "treats" for his family. We would make cookies, brownies, a cake, or whatever and have so much fun! Cookies were fun to make, as there were more ingredients, so everyone got to have lots of turns dumping stuff in. One day after the flour was getting dumped, the mixer turned on, and flour went EVERYWHERE! After that, the kids would ask if we could do that again. Keenan loved X-Box. He would try and patiently teach me how to play games, but he would kill me so fast, that I didn't have alot of time to practice.

I wanted to blog about Keenan today, and remind myself of my blessings. I was blessed to serve. I am blessed with eternal friendships. I am blessed with a strengthened testimony of the goodness of mankind and eternal families. I want to tell my family I appreciate all the love and patience they have had for me. They sacrificed so that I could serve. They love me in my weakness, and they support me always. To my "Bly babies," I love you forever! To Bill and Tricia, thank you for sharing your family with me! Your unselfishness gave me one of the greatest blessings I have known. To my Heavenly Father, I thank you for this opportunity.

To Keenan, I still think of you always. I think I am just beginning to understand some of the lessons you taught.

"God Be With You 'til We Meet Again."

xoxo

Cyn

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME...

2009-03-29T21:04:00.000-07:00

So, is it very narcissistic to blog about my special day?

Here goes!

I'm 39 today. Christopher told me I was halfway to dead. Cute, right? Maybe NOT!
Phillip cooked today, as he does every Sunday. He grilled steaks, baked potatos, and steamed fresh carrots. YUM! He even ordered my favorite lemon cake for me!

The whole family was here, and it doesn't get better than that! Thanks everyone for the fantastic birthday, and well wishes!

xoxo

Hearing Aids and Junk Mail

2009-03-19T15:43:00.000-07:00

I have hearing aids. I have had them since 1994.

Shortly after moving here, I couldn't find the right

batteries in the grocery store which was where I

had always bought them previously.

Enter Sears.

We are at Sears one day, and they have a "hearing aid center"

I buy batteries there. The sales girl asked me for my address.

I thought it strange, since I was paying with cash, but I foolishly

gave her my info. Maybe I'd get coupons in the mail? Who knows.

I have gotten junk mail EVER SINCE!

Here are a couple that came last week.

Apparantly older people lose their ability to enjoy bathing. Who knew?

Enjoy!

HAPPY TAG....

2009-03-07T20:31:00.000-08:00

Happy Tag
Link to the person who has tagged you.Write down six things that make you happy.Post the rules, tag six others and let them know you did it.Tell the person when your entry is complete.
6 Things that make me Happy:
1. Mi Familia
2. Weekends/Vacations
3. Catching up with friends
4. Reading
5. Having things organized (see #6)
6. Dreams
People I tagged... Jeannene, Stephanie, Edie, Laura, Amanda and Melissa

HAPPY BIRTHDAY LAUREN!

2009-02-21T18:45:00.001-08:00

Lauren turns 12 this week, and had a "rock concert" party. This concert was complete with

concert tickets, all girl bands, and a concert to end all concerts! What a blast! Happy Birthday Lauren, WE LOVE YOU!!!

Why I should NOT go back to bed in the morning...

2009-02-18T12:44:00.000-08:00

This morning I was tired. I came home after dropping the "big kids" off to seminary, and crawled back in bed. NOT a good idea.

The 11-almost-12 year old went to school wearing makeup and Christopher's underwear ended up in the backyard courtesy of Jack or Zoey. (I'm not sure which one, they both have issues.)

It's noon, and I'm on Pepsi #2. I've got to get to bed earlier tonight!

xoxo

Cyn

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!

2009-02-13T15:25:00.000-08:00

My favorite Valentines Day happened in 1999.

We had been given a trip for Christmas by Phillip's

boss to San Diego, and we decided to use it for Valentines

Day. His boss told us we HAD to go to the temple, and so

arrangements were made. My rec. had expired, so my

cute neighbor who happened to be in the Stake Presidency

signed it for me at his home. I put in my pocket, and

finished up preparations. You know what happened. I

forgot to take it out of my pocket. So, I asked my mom as we

were driving to the airport to overnight it to the hotel. She did.

It arrived as hoped for! Well, wouldn't you know, that I opened it,

we went to Sea World that day, and when we came back, the maid

service had thrown it away accidentally. I was devastated. I know,

I know, I SHOULD HAVE PUT IT AWAY!! BUT... My cute husband

went dumpster diving, and FOUND IT!!! We were able to go after all,

and the San Diego Temple has been my favorite ever since.

Thanks Phillip for the best Valentines Day ever! I love you!

Happy Birthday Corey!!

2009-02-08T21:55:00.000-08:00

Tonight we celebrated Corey's birthday. It isn't until the 17th, but he and Becca will be in California. In honor of Corey's big day, I thought I would torture him, and make him answer a bunch of questions. You know. Earn that dreaded "mother-in-law" status.... But really, his answers were fun to hear, and I'm sure they will be fun for you to read. We love you Corey!

Name- Corey Kul his Thai name is Chaichana (Champion) Boonsrisukulsak (boon shri sak kun sak) He is the youngest of three children. Corey attends UNLV with a 3.85 GPA. His H.S. GPA was 4.1 He is majoring in Psychology. He would like to go into Sports Psychology or Organizational Psychology. Favorite color -blue Favorite food is Italian. Favorite singer - Gavin DeGraw. Favorite sports are basketball and golf with a greater preference to basketball. His 11th grade teacher Mrs. Reynolds is his favorite. She got him interested in psychology, and challenged him. What he admires his parents for the most, is their unconditional love and support. The time he was most "NERVOUS", is when he drove to our house on 12/12/2008 to tell us that he and Rebecca eloped. The thing he most likes about being married is always having Becca there, being able to confide in each other, and supporting each other. The first time he met Becca he thought she was intelligent and beautiful. His first impressions of us-- He SAYS he liked us all. ( : He looks forward to having a family the most. His best qualities as a father will be being a good listener and understanding. His greatest strength- always gives 100% His greatest weakness- overthinking/overanalyzing things. He looks forward to 2009 bringing him continued good health and continued success and happiness. Now aren't you glad you read this? Happy Birthday Corey! We love you!

Happiness is....

2009-02-03T14:11:00.000-08:00

I was able to go to the temple this morning and was struck with such joy and happiness at being there! I was happy to be with friends, happy to be doing something that is worthwhile, and happy to feel like I "reconnected" with an old friend. Sometimes I forget.

xoxo
Cyn

Sadies 2009

2009-01-26T22:20:00.000-08:00

Lex went to Sadies on Saturday. They had alot of fun!

1 pictures

2 dinner

3 hockey game

4 New York, New York roller coaster

5. Bellagio Chinese New Year exhibit

6 ice cream

7 home

Did you notice that they didn't actually "go" to the dance? Apparantly that's optional.

My, how times have changed...

xoxo

Cyn

Celebration Dinner

2009-01-19T18:55:00.000-08:00

We had a celebration dinner for Corey and Rebecca.
Thanks to all our family that came.
We love you all! Thanks for the MANY hours
you drove to get here!
Enjoy the photos!
Thanks Aubree for taking such BEAUTIFUL pictures!

Dear Mr. Bailey,

2009-01-16T09:57:00.000-08:00

Dear Mr. Bailey,

Thank you so much for getting the kids off to early morning
Seminary this morning! It was so nice to sleep in!
When I went downstairs, the dishwasher was humming
along thanks to you! I appreciate you loading AND starting
it! To top it all off, thank you for calling me to chat.
I love you!

Calling all cooks!

2009-01-14T11:50:00.000-08:00

Hi!

I am looking for some new soup recipes.
I know you must have a GREAT one!
Would you leave the recipe in the
"Comments" section?

xoxo
Cyn

The latest.

2009-01-11T20:21:00.000-08:00

Well, not much going on right now.
We are having a small celebration
for Corey and Rebecca this Saturday.
We are excited to see family that will
be coming to town.
We were lucky enough to have dinner
with Corey's family last night, and could
not have been more impressed with them.
We feel so blessed that Rebecca has been so
warmly included in their family. Of course
we love Corey too! I look forward to posting
new pictures of them soon.
xoxo
Cyn

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!

2008-12-31T17:58:00.001-08:00

Happy New Year! As I have thought of 2008,

I am happy to reflect on some great blessings and changes. In 2008 we had many. ( :

* Steady work

* Happy, healthy, FUNNY kids

*Family reunions

* Family vacations

*New church callings

*A son-in-law

I look forward to

discovering what 2009 has in store for us.

Happy New Year!

MAKEOVERS

2008-12-29T23:36:00.000-08:00

So, you know what happens.
Your daughter has a friend

sleepover, and they want to

do makeovers. You are then

asked to report to the "beauty

parlor" to get a "new" look.

Since I only have one face, they

each took a half. I started to worry,

when Rylee said, "Lauren, I'm trying

to make it look natural, you're being

mean!" to which Lauren responds,

"She will look fresh and exciting. Like

she is going to a rock concert."

HMMM. Should I be worried?

This is the final product.

THANKS LAUREN AND RYLEE!
I love you both!

MERRY CHRISTMAS!

2008-12-25T20:53:00.000-08:00

O Christmas Tree, O Christmas Tree...

I really liked our tree this year, although this picture doesn't do it justice!
Above left: The kids are having cake after dinner.

Lauren was the alarm clock this year. Alexes still doesn't know what's going on in this picture.

Chris and Dad watch a movie as the

evening winds down.

We had a very Merry Christmas, and hope that you did. We have much to be grateful for, and if you are reading this, you are counted among blessings!

xoxo

Cyn

Let it Snow, Let it Snow, Let it Snow.....

2008-12-17T19:51:00.000-08:00

Not since 1979 have we had this kind of snow.... It started around noon today, and as of right now, it is STILL snowing! The kids have had a blast, and have been outside slipping, sliding, making snow angels, snowballs, and chasing the dogs around. There's nothing like a snowstorm in Vegas to bring all the neighbor kids together! It reminds us of Utah!

All I Want for Christmas is a..... SON IN LAW?!?!?!

2008-12-13T16:15:00.000-08:00

CONGRATULATIONS REBECCA and CORY

Yep. It's true. All of you who haven't heard by text message, or whatever else...
Rebecca and Cory eloped yesterday. I know, I just rocked your world, right?

I'll post pics when I can...

xoxo

Cyn

!VIVA MEXICO!

2008-12-11T19:47:00.000-08:00

Ahhh... what did we enjoy the most?? Was it learning about ancient Mayan culuture at Chichen Itza?

Getting the couples massage and being poolside/beachside at the Hotel Catalonia?

Swimming at Iki Iki?

Xcaret was alot of fun. The kids swam with the dolphins, there was a section of the park devoted to SIESTA'S, and a great show at night... not to mention swimming in the underground river, seeing some animals and interesting exhibits...

Maybe it was going into town... (Playa Del Carmen) and watching the kids barter... I also loved celebrating Rebecca's 18th birthday there too... hmmmm...

Or maybe the best part about our vacation was NO phones OR t.v.

Maybe just realizing that our kids are growing every minute and that anytime, anywhere, and anyhow we are all able to be together is the very best of all!

xoxo

Cyn

ADIOS.....

2008-12-03T18:17:00.001-08:00

!Hola!

We are going to MEXICO tonight!!
We'll be back soon with pics...

xoxo
Cyn

In Memorium...

2008-12-02T14:27:00.000-08:00

Come What May, and Love It
Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin
Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles
The way we react to adversity can be a major factor in how happy and successful we can be in life.
When I was young I loved playing sports, and I have many fond memories of those days. But not all of them are pleasant. I remember one day after my football team lost a tough game, I came home feeling discouraged. My mother was there. She listened to my sad story. She taught her children to trust in themselves and each other, not blame others for their misfortunes, and give their best effort in everything they attempted.
When we fell down, she expected us to pick ourselves up and get going again. So the advice my mother gave to me then wasn’t altogether unexpected. It has stayed with me all my life.
“Joseph,” she said, “come what may, and love it.”
I have often reflected on that counsel.
I think she may have meant that every life has peaks and shadows and times when it seems that the birds don’t sing and bells don’t ring. Yet in spite of discouragement and adversity, those who are happiest seem to have a way of learning from difficult times, becoming stronger, wiser, and happier as a result.
There may be some who think that General Authorities rarely experience pain, suffering, or distress. If only that were true. While every man and woman on this stand today has experienced an abundant measure of joy, each also has drunk deeply from the cup of disappointment, sorrow, and loss. The Lord in His wisdom does not shield anyone from grief or sadness.
For me, the Lord has opened the windows of heaven and showered blessings upon my family beyond my ability to express. Yet like everyone else, I have had times in my life when it seemed that the heaviness of my heart might be greater than I could bear. During those times I think back to those tender days of my youth when great sorrows came at the losing end of a football game.
How little I knew then of what awaited me in later years. But whenever my steps led through seasons of sadness and sorrow, my mother’s words often came back to me: “Come what may, and love it.”
How can we love days that are filled with sorrow? We can’t—at least not in the moment. I don’t think my mother was suggesting that we suppress discouragement or deny the reality of pain. I don’t think she was suggesting that we smother unpleasant truths beneath a cloak of pretended happiness. But I do believe that the way we react to adversity can be a major factor in how happy and successful we can be in life.
If we approach adversities wisely, our hardest times can be times of greatest growth, which in turn can lead toward times of greatest happiness.
Over the years I have learned a few things that have helped me through times of testing and trial. I would like to share them with you.
Learn to Laugh
The first thing we can do is learn to laugh. Have you ever seen an angry driver who, when someone else makes a mistake, reacts as though that person has insulted his honor, his family, his dog, and his ancestors all the way back to Adam? Or have you had an encounter with an overhanging cupboard door left open at the wrong place and the wrong time which has been cursed, condemned, and avenged by a sore-headed victim?
There is an antidote for times such as these: learn to laugh.
I remember loading up our children in a station wagon and driving to Los Angeles. There were at least nine of us in the car, and we would invariably get lost. Instead of getting angry, we laughed. Every time we made a wrong turn, we laughed harder.
Getting lost was not an unusual occurrence for us. Once while heading south to Cedar City, Utah, we took a wrong turn and didn’t realize it until two hours later when we saw the “Welcome to Nevada” signs. We didn’t get angry. We laughed, and as a result, anger and resentment rarely resulted. Our laughter created cherished memories for us.
I remember when one of our daughters went on a blind date. She was all dressed up and waiting for her date to arrive when the doorbell rang. In walked a man who seemed a little old, but she tried to be polite. She introduced him to me and my wife and the other children; then she put on her coat and went out the door. We watched as she got into the car, but the car didn’t move. Eventually our daughter got out of the car and, red faced, ran back into the house. The man that she thought was her blind date had actually come to pick up another of our daughters who had agreed to be a babysitter for him and his wife.
We all had a good laugh over that. In fact, we couldn’t stop laughing. Later, when our daughter’s real blind date showed up, I couldn’t come out to meet him because I was still in the kitchen laughing. Now I realize that our daughter could have felt humiliated and embarrassed. But she laughed with us, and as a result, we still laugh about it today.
The next time you’re tempted to groan, you might try to laugh instead. It will extend your life and make the lives of all those around you more enjoyable.
Seek for the Eternal
The second thing we can do is seek for the eternal. You may feel singled out when adversity enters your life. You shake your head and wonder, “Why me?”
But the dial on the wheel of sorrow eventually points to each of us. At one time or another, everyone must experience sorrow. No one is exempt.
I love the scriptures because they show examples of great and noble men and women such as Abraham, Sarah, Enoch, Moses, Joseph, Emma, and Brigham. Each of them experienced adversity and sorrow that tried, fortified, and refined their characters.
Learning to endure times of disappointment, suffering, and sorrow is part of our on-the-job training. These experiences, while often difficult to bear at the time, are precisely the kinds of experiences that stretch our understanding, build our character, and increase our compassion for others.
Because Jesus Christ suffered greatly, He understands our suffering. He understands our grief. We experience hard things so that we too may have increased compassion and understanding for others.
Remember the sublime words of the Savior to the Prophet Joseph Smith when he suffered with his companions in the smothering darkness of Liberty Jail: “My son, peace be unto thy soul; thine adversity and thine afflictions shall be but a small moment;
“And then, if thou endure it well, God shall exalt thee on high; thou shalt triumph over all thy foes.”1
With that eternal perspective, Joseph took comfort from these words, and so can we. Sometimes the very moments that seem to overcome us with suffering are those that will ultimately suffer us to overcome.
The Principle of Compensation
The third thing we can do is understand the principle of compensation. The Lord compensates the faithful for every loss. That which is taken away from those who love the Lord will be added unto them in His own way. While it may not come at the time we desire, the faithful will know that every tear today will eventually be returned a hundredfold with tears of rejoicing and gratitude.
One of the blessings of the gospel is the knowledge that when the curtain of death signals the end of our mortal lives, life will continue on the other side of the veil. There we will be given new opportunities. Not even death can take from us the eternal blessings promised by a loving Heavenly Father.
Because Heavenly Father is merciful, a principle of compensation prevails. I have seen this in my own life. My grandson Joseph has autism. It has been heartbreaking for his mother and father to come to grips with the implications of this affliction.
They knew that Joseph would probably never be like other children. They understood what that would mean not only for Joseph but for the family as well. But what a joy he has been to us. Autistic children often have a difficult time showing emotion, but every time I’m with him, Joseph gives me a big hug. While there have been challenges, he has filled our lives with joy.
His parents have encouraged him to participate in sports. When he first started playing baseball, he was in the outfield. But I don’t think he grasped the need to run after loose balls. He thought of a much more efficient way to play the game. When a ball was hit in his direction, Joseph watched it go by and then pulled another baseball out of his pocket and threw that one to the pitcher.
Any reservations that his family may have had in raising Joseph, any sacrifices they have made have been compensated tenfold. Because of this choice spirit, his mother and father have learned much about children with disabilities. They have witnessed firsthand the generosity and compassion of family, neighbors, and friends. They have rejoiced together as Joseph has progressed. They have marveled at his goodness.
Trust in the Father and the Son
The fourth thing we can do is put our trust in our Heavenly Father and His Son, Jesus Christ.
“God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son.”2 The Lord Jesus Christ is our partner, helper, and advocate. He wants us to be happy. He wants us to be successful. If we do our part, He will step in.
He who descended below all things will come to our aid. He will comfort and uphold us. He will strengthen us in our weakness and fortify us in our distress. He will make weak things become strong.3
One of our daughters, after giving birth to a baby, became seriously ill. We prayed for her, administered to her, and supported her as best we could. We hoped she would receive a blessing of healing, but days turned into months, and months turned into years. At one point I told her that this affliction might be something she would have to struggle with the rest of her life.
One morning I remember pulling out a small card and threading it through my typewriter. Among the words that I typed for her were these: “The simple secret is this: put your trust in the Lord, do your best, then leave the rest to Him.”
She did put her trust in God. But her affliction did not disappear. For years she suffered, but in due course, the Lord blessed her, and eventually she returned to health.
Knowing this daughter, I believe that even if she had never found relief, yet she would have trusted in her Heavenly Father and “[left] the rest to Him.”
Conclusion
Although my mother has long since passed to her eternal reward, her words are always with me. I still remember her advice to me given on that day long ago when my team lost a football game: “Come what may, and love it.”
I know why there must be opposition in all things. Adversity, if handled correctly, can be a blessing in our lives. We can learn to love it.
As we look for humor, seek for the eternal perspective, understand the principle of compensation, and draw near to our Heavenly Father, we can endure hardship and trial. We can say, as did my mother, “Come what may, and love it.” Of this I testify in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

Happy Thanksgiving!

2008-11-27T20:40:00.000-08:00

Things I am thankful for...

1. Kids that all chose a dinner item to be in charge of today.
a. Becca- pies
b. Lexi- rolls & fruit salad
c. Chris- corn
d. Lolly- mashed potatoes
Phillip- appetizers
Me- Turkey, gravy, stuffing

2. Husbands that can unclog garbage disposals.

3. Family/Friends

4. Good Health and Good times!!
I hope your hearts are as full as your tummies!
xoxo
Cyn
** Follow this link to take a quiz about turkeys.. just for fun.**
http://home.aristotle.net/Thanksgiving/trivia.asp

"O Ye Fair Ones"

2008-11-22T22:14:00.000-08:00

Phillip and I were called to teach Sunday School to the 13 - 14 year olds. I have been so grateful to be able to do this together. I not only get to see Phillip "in action", but Chris is in our class too.
This week, the lesson is titled:

"How Could Ye Have Departed from the Ways of the Lord?"

The lesson focuses on Mormon, and how he lived righteously even when it seemed everyone around him was wicked. We learn that Mormon was only 10, when he is approached by Ammaron and given instructions regarding the plates.

10 years old! Can you imagine?

He is visited by the Lord at age 15 and "tasted and knew of the goodness of Jesus. (Mormon 1:15) He leads an army at age 16, and goes on to lead those armies for over 30 years! The Nephites refuse to repent, they seek vengeance against the Lamanites, and

are ultimately destroyed. Mormon also, is eventually killed.

I have really been thinking about how this applies to us today. How we are to remember "Him", and how hard it is for us and our kids. Is it really that hard, or do we make it that hard.
The lesson states: "Righteousness and wisdom are not limited by age or other circumstances. The Lord will bless those who serve Him at any age."

We all know some amazing kids. We have felt strengthened by their testimonies and courage.
I pray that we are doing our best so that we can help lead them into who our Father in Heaven needs them to be.

I don't want him to ask of us, "O ye fair ones, how could ye have departed from the ways of the Lord? O ye fair ones, how could ye have rejected that Jesus, who stood with open arms to receive you!"... O ye fair sons and daughters, ye fathers and mothers, ye husbands and wives, ye fair ones, how is it that ye could have fallen!" (Mormon 6: 17 & 19)

I have hope. Hope in a living prophet, hope through the atonement, hope in our families, especially righteous youth. I pray that we love them, pray for them, and set good examples for them. I have a testimony of these things.

In the name of Jesus Christ, Amen....

xoxo

Cyn

Wunnerful Weekend....

2008-11-16T20:02:00.000-08:00

We have had a great weekend.

1.The girls were able to get much antcipated haircuts. (Thanks Amanda!)

2.Hubby took me on a date!

3.Chris was successful in his "Scouting for Food" assignment.

4.Phillip took Becca to "Drivers Edge" at the Speedway.

5.Phillip made Sunday dinner.

6.Lauren and I made grandma's recipe for a chocolate cake. (Thanks Mom!)

I know, lucky me!

The Duck Park

2008-11-08T14:32:00.000-08:00

We took the kids and the dogs to Sunset Park today.

We discovered it right after we moved here, and came

often. We haven't been for a long time. We've missed it!

Lauren had a friend sleepover, and so we got to

bring her also! Thanks for coming Mauryn!

Good times!

Take two.....

2008-11-07T21:24:00.000-08:00

OK. My darling husband is working hard to
help me upload photos from the camera...
It is a new camera, and we are still figuring
things out.... HENCE, the delay.. which doesn't
really matter, since I have told no one I "officially"
started a blog...

I hope this works, because I have some great pictures
I want to share...
xoxo
Cyn

Weather...

2008-10-31T21:28:00.000-07:00

Today our high was 66 degrees, which considering that on Halloween our high was 88 degrees means that Fall is finally here... (I hope)
I thought I would show you some pictures of what
an eleven-year-old + 88 degree weather on HALLOWEEN + four hours of trick or treating =...

ENJOY!

Here We Go....

2008-10-22T22:24:00.000-07:00

OK,

I am finally joining what seems to be everybody else.... did I succumb to "peer pressure?" I don't know. My kids would probably say "YES!"
Check back for updates....

I am excited to be keeping up with family and friends....

xoxo
Cyn

CYNPHIL

At Last....

MOVING

MARCH

Love.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

A Bushel and a Peck

Going Batty.

Hard.

June

May Day, May Day...

Prom.

Mother's Day.

Good morning!

So far, so good.

The List

The Big 4-0

Family Traditions

Time flies.

L*O*V*E

F*R*I*E*D Brain

Back to School

Christmas 09

'Tis the Season

Dear Mr. Bailey

Fantastic Fall

End of October

Seasons Change.

Hakuna Matata

Heavenly Choirs.

What have you been doing?

Newest Kid Pics!

Leaving Las Vegas..

HAPPY BIRTHDAY KAITLYN!

Weekend of the Fourth. Let Freedom Ring!

HAPPY 40th ANNIVERSARY

Good times

Jumpin' June

Circus

Graduation

"May"hem

Happy Mother's Day to YOU!

Random Happenings

To Blog or Not to Blog

Keenan Bly

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME...

Hearing Aids and Junk Mail

HAPPY TAG....

HAPPY BIRTHDAY LAUREN!

Why I should NOT go back to bed in the morning...

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!

Happy Birthday Corey!!

Happiness is....

Sadies 2009

Celebration Dinner

Dear Mr. Bailey,

Calling all cooks!

The latest.

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!

MAKEOVERS

MERRY CHRISTMAS!

Let it Snow, Let it Snow, Let it Snow.....

All I Want for Christmas is a..... SON IN LAW?!?!?!

!VIVA MEXICO!

ADIOS.....

In Memorium...

Happy Thanksgiving!

"O Ye Fair Ones"

Wunnerful Weekend....

The Duck Park

Take two.....

Weather...

Here We Go....

LOV*E

FRIED Brain